Maxim
Choose your companions wisely.
“He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.”
Judaism · Ancient (before 200 BCE)
Translation: King James Version (public domain)
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We slowly become like the people we spend our days with. Seeking out good, honest friends is one of the surest ways to grow into a better person.
Related expressions
“Do not have evil-doers for friends, do not have low people for friends: have virtuous people for friends, have for friends the best of men.”
“There are three friendships which are advantageous, and three which are injurious. Friendship with the upright; friendship with the sincere; and friendship with the man of much observation:-- these are advantageous.”
“A man follows the religion of his friend; so each one should consider whom he makes his friend.”
Score
Moral Rank 70.9 · Evidence E = 15.87
E = ln(1+3.60) + √3.60 + 3·3.15 + 1.5·2 = 15.87